Rules of Being Young and Successful
Being young and successful 's what we want. We are often hurried, we presume that we must amass just as much money/experience since we're young and then we can be even more rich and experienced later in life.
Yes this is very true, you wish to start as early as possible, but everyone who only thinks this shallow usually don't ensure it is.
If you think the same as the society think, you will get only what the society usually get
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99% worldwide are sleeping through life, they are certainly not really awake, this is exactly why if you ask them a deeper question in daily life, they're confused, for example "what is success to you", their response is probably just money, happiness, etc. nevertheless they don't really know what it can be.
Happiness for example. Sure for those who have money, good friends, good job you will be happier, but that everything in life?
If you can't define success, society will define it to suit your needs and you will end up doing just like everyone else and getting similar to everyone else.
You know what 'the same' is right? Get a 'good' degree (whatever meaning), get a job, get wed, have kids, work tirelessly to put kids through school so they can do the exact same thing because you and the rest of the society, retire, die in mediocrity.
Young and successful is a lot broader than money and relationships
Now i would not mean to say that this ol' corporate world is shit, if it's for you then it's in your case, but most people are stuck inside their shitty corporate job they do not belong there whilst still being think they still belong there even though they're only raised knowing that it's the only way.
Just what exactly should you do to know exactly what is the definition of success?
1. Be open-minded
There are many ways to be 'successful', a lot of people have done it, they followed their heart determined a niche or even invented their particular industry, one example is what I'm doing now, I once watched a video in regards to a guy explaining how there exists a career for people who share their knowledge as a living, and here I am.
2. Try things out
I would never be able to get to where I am today easily only listened and knew there was clearly an industry like this. Trying things out has been at the heart of my success, I stupidly fell so many times but I always kept moving. However, it's not as simple as point 1, just watching a youtube video, I would not be even remotely interested about watching the playback quality if I wasn't ready. What's 'ready' mean? It indicates, you have gathered experience combined with mindset needed to range from one passion to an alternative. I was so dedicated to bodybuilding, books, as an HR manager, photography, and yes it all taught me a lttle bit about myself, and when the pieces was formed in my mind, I felt compelled toward becoming a few things i am now, and just like I always do, I aim it, failing so many times as well, and now the actual. The key is taking action congruent to your 'calling'. Don't worry if the feeling isn't strong, in case you have a slight hint of wanting to do something, do it first on a small scale and decide if you want to keep it up.
Forming the puzzle pieces is very important, I never understood why I used to be so passionate about street photography, n't any other kinds of photography, just street. Running around the streets in Europe, I still remember I do believe I took over 200 pictures per day every single day, and I realized since my desire to take pictures of people on the streets is because I must say i love people. We do, many people who are confused about life say they like people, which is good, nonetheless they don't understand when I say that I LOVE people.
Also that i'm writing this, I just realized another thing, when I take street photography, I loved taking candid pictures, and why? Now I'm sure that it's because I love people's expression when they're just not faking it, they may be just minding their own business and expressing what you truly feel on the inside. So in retrospect I put much effort into learning, reflecting, teaching about authenticity. Because I'm totally fascinated with it! Damn, I love writing!
So that's a good tip immediately on how to reflect.. Write about it. Specifically the feelings you had about it.
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So, the idea is, the more you're in your journey, not another woman's damn definition of 'success', you might be more and more clear as to what you love, what success is usually to you. And the clearer you are, the clearer what action you have to take, the more clarity you've got, the more you can put massive effort, and massive effort drives one to your destination faster.
Until the next time, buddy!
Kevin signing off.
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